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An island on this line at about the space under the ring finger area tells of eyesight problems. The Fate Line is not always present in a palm. When it is present it helps the palmist time events in the client's life. The fate line tells all about a person's career pathway changes, independence, personal will power, and their ability to adapt to life's circumstances. If a hand does not have a fate line it is not bad like so many palmistry books have stated. It can mean the owner's life is dictated by the circumstances of their environment or by an overly possessive parent. However it can mean the owner is open minded, free wheeling and spontaneous about life and their pathway. When this line is present in it's full flow, like in the image above, the owner has a very balanced inner strength and guidance about life from within. 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Almost always you'll hear yes, and the neat thing is other girls will be watching and then they'll come up to you and ask if you'll, "Do me! Do me!". I'm serious, it's that easy." Other gimmicks may include tarot cards, magic tricks and palmistry, the latter of which shall be examined a bit in this guide. Palm Reading-Why? Many aspects of predicting the future and fortune-telling are very pattern-like - they rely on creating states, leading the imagination etc. Learn what the various lines in people's palms are supposed to mean and you'll never run out of mesmerising things to say to her:) Besides, doing a palm-reading routine to a girl somewhere in public has an added bonus of a possibility of also other girls in the vicinity getting in line to extend their soft hands for you to touch and "examine":) Palm-reading (aka palmistry) can also combine patterns and kino into one truly powerful strategy. ASF: "Run the palm reader routine (you don't need to know fuck all about it). Get hold, comment on soft skin/read palm (saying stuff like you can see she's a very highly sexed, physically responsive woman - blah, blah, and really laying it on thick - with embedded commands etc. if you like). Don't let go of her hand while you're doing this, keep looking deep into her eyes then start kissing the hand & telling her some shit about 'people may know each others' mind, but they don't really know each other until their bodies get to know each other." So ok, maybe this example from ASF moved a bit too fast, but you get the general idea:) Just watch her reactions and respond accordingly. If all signs indicate that you could get away with an "until their bodies get to know each other"-line, then use it:) Here's an example of transitioning to palm-reading taken from "Eliciting values - the questions": ""How do your friends describe you?" Use this both for value-eliciting and as prep info for palm-reading, after which you can say "Let me see whether you actually are like that as well" and transition to palm-reading."" It is however good to know a few things about palmistry beforehand, for it will be far easier to "predict her future" and "look into her past" this way:) Plus your being able to show her how you draw your conclusions adds "credibility" to what you're saying:) The next few articles will explain the main lines in the hand and how to read them Reading the Lines in General The three major lines in the hand by Peter and Kathleen Keogh When you look into your hands, you will see the three major lines of heart, head, and life (see picture). The heart line shows how we feel, the head line how we think and the life line how much physical vitality we have to sustain the body. The motivation to live is not shown by the life line alone.

June 12, 2006

One of the best approaches I've ever used for meeting women is just to be incredibly direct, but also VERY low key.

Stunning Approach "One of the best approaches I've ever used for meeting women is just to be incredibly direct, but also VERY low key. This combination exerts an almost HYPNOTIC fascination. So, for example, if I spot a woman I find attractive, in a low-key, but direct way, I'll walk up to her and say, "Excuse me (you're not really excusing yourself for making her feel really-really good in just a moment, you're giving her a command to stop whatever she's doing and pay attention to you, you can alternatively use "Forgive me for interrupting you" telling her to interrupt her train of thought and focus all her attention on you, seemingly in order for her to be able to determine whether or not to forgive you:), I just wanted to tell you.....(pause a second or two for effect...they will begin to wonder "what???.. what does he want to tell me?") I think you're absolutely stunning....and I really wanted to meet you. (Pause again)" ""My name's …...." I then extend my hand and shake theirs! What makes this approach work? You are being DIRECT, with no excuses or apologies. This RADIATES confidence. l It's done LOW KEY! I talk SLOWLY...no rushing....I'm radiating, affinity, warmth and relaxed power instead of need or horniness. l When you do this, it doesn't matter that a moment before she was obsessing on that overdue bill or her yeast infection. You've got her attention BIG TIME! Now you can put her on a "sense of adventure" test by using a little intrusion. What does this mean? Simply...you need to intrude SLIGHTLY...and I do mean S-L-I-G-H-T-L-Y on her personal space; not so much that she pulls back or runs or slaps you, but enough to make her wonder and get a bit excited. How do you do this? Well, when you take her hand to shake it... DON'T LET GO AFTERWARDS!!! Keep holding on as you continue to talk to her, looking straight in her eyes. Will SOME women pull their hands away? YOU BET! Maybe 30 to 40%. But never mind that. The one's that keep holding your hand for a moment longer though… have passed your "sense of adventure" test:) You have made them already slightly attracted to you in some 5 to 10 seconds from first meeting you:)" The effectiveness of this approach is however limited with mostly 7s and 8s. The really absolutely stunning women will most probably not the too phased by the "you look absolutely stunning" line. Also keep in mind, that this approach is a two-edged sword - it is powerful and direct, but it is also an obvious come-on. If she likes this approach, you've propelled yourself in her direction a great deal. If however this is not the case and she thinks you're a pathetic supplicator (depends on how you deliver it though, try to follow Ross Jeffries' suggestions of being low-key but confident and direct) then you've probably propelled yourself much more further away from her - in which case a casual "we've known forever" or a neg approach might have worked better. Have no despair though, you'll learn from experience. Update. Once again, the following is an example of major supplication and might not work on the best looking women (see "Neghits explained" for more information on that), but then again, it might, and especially as it is so quick and easy, you better use this as opposed to having done nothing at all:) The corny line approach. Speed Seduction newsletter, Ross Jeffries: "I was doing some errands in a local mini-mall when I spotted an unbelievably hot-bodied woman in tight-fitting work-out outfit. As she was leaving the yogurt place with her double combination vanilla/chocolate swirl, I said, "Excuse me, has anyone ever told you you're a shining example of physiological/genetic perfection?" Her response of course, was to laugh and say "Thank you... no, you are the (31 of 84) [7/5/2001 8:02:27 PM] first!" I then USED her laughter response by saying, "Well, I'm glad you laughed. Because although you really are breathtaking, and I wanted to get a glimpse at the personality inside of the beauty before I introduced myself. My name is Ross". I then invited her to sit down while we enjoyed a brief hand-writing analysis. But notice here, that I mentioned and USED the fact that she laughed as a way of establishing that I was looking for MORE than her physical beauty." Pacing the Ongoing Reality A good tool to use for instant rapport, especially when approaching (as you need to overcome her possible cautiousness about you and do it fast) is pacing the ongoing reality. What this means, is describing both the very recent (for example her having been idle and you having approached her), ongoing (you talking to her and her being pleasantly surprised) and near future events (her feeling good about getting to know a handsome stranger like you) in a pleasant, humorous and believeable manner. Here's a modified example originated by Clifford in Clifford's Seductin newsletter. It starts out with some basic approaching elements (pardoning, complimenting her, offering your name), which are sometimes frowned upon by more experienced PUA-s (see "Complimenting her", "Neghits" and "Should I offer my name?" for more information on why), but the ensuing pacing of ongoing reality creates an overall pleasant atmosphere of honesty, simplicity and sincerity, which is often almost impossible to resist:) The modified example pacing by Clifford, Clifford's Seduction newsletter: "Excuse me, I don't mean to interrupt you [drinking coffee / reading the newspaper / waiting for the commuter / your train of thought], but I just wanted to tell you that I find you very attractive and wanted to meet you. My name is Rick, what's yours?" [Here comes the pacing] "You know, you never know when something wonderful is about to happen, like you could find yourself [in the cafe / in the waiting-hall / sitting on the bench / whereever] just thinking about [eating another donut / what time the commuter arrives / whatever she's doing or expecting to happen], and the next thing you know an attractive stranger is talking to you, and as you listen to him you may notice that even though [you've never seen him before / you've seen him before at this bus-stop / you've met him before here in this library], somehow today, because he is talking to you, you may see him in a new and different way. Can you imagine that?" Now what you did here, is you told her something that she invariably had to agree with - yes, she was where you said she was, doing what you told her she was doing, thinking in the lines of what you hinted she was, yes, yes and yes. And all of these things were quite simple for you to say - all you had to do was to describe the scenery:) But in her mind it doesn't matter - she finds herself agreeing to what you're saying, over and over again. And its not some unimportant who-cares and so-what stuff like "the sun is shining... and the buildings are tall... and people are walking by" either, its actually something quite important as it is about what _she_ was doing and what _she_ was thinking about. So while she is listening to you and she finds herself agreeing with you on some fairly important matters, the agreeance she has in her mind creates a feeling of enthusiasm and being close to you, and in effect - instant rapport. Having had to agree with so many things, the few things that she probably wouldn't agree with on their own, seem also much more acceptable as a consequence. So maybe she wasn't pleasantly surprised when you approached her, or maybe she wouldn't describe you as particularly handsome - but now that you've showered her with so many truisms to begin with, the ones that wouldn't ring so true by themselves seem much more true amongst all the other truisms. Thus for example you telling her she was pleasantly surprised when she thought she wasn't, will have her re-evaluate the nature of her surprise as a consequence of all the other truisms that surround it. Don't overload her mind with things that she probably wouldn't agree with though - keep a fine balance, push things in your pacing just a bit above the actual and towards the more positive, for if you go overboard, she will stop agreeing with you... and bye-bye instant rapport.

June 10, 2006

so how do you guys know each other?

Her:"Well, yada,yada,yada,yada …" You: (Listens carefully looking for a follow up questions) "Really, and how did that make you feel?" Her: "Well, blah, blah …" You: (Listens carefully looking for a follow up questions) "Wow! That's a lot of work. How did you deal with it?" (Notice, i make a comment before asking her another question, so she'll know i'm listing) Her: "Well, blah, blah …" You: "That's very interesting, but I would deal with it another way." Her: "Oh really. Tell me!" You: "Well, I'd take a week end off, spend it in a hot Jacuzzi and top it off with a full body massage." Her: "Oh that sounds like so much fun. What else?" You: (Focus conversation back to her - make her talk)"Well what would you suggest?" Her: "Well, blah, blah Simple Approach An example of a simple 2-on-2 approach (ASF): "Hi... my friend isn't from here (introduce friend)... so how do you guys know each other?" You can also use this to approach a larger group. "So how does everyone know everyone else?" Yeah, that line is great... especially when the truth comes out and the guy that THOUGHT he was here on a date finds out he's only HANGING OUT with the girl he wants and she declares herself free for your picking:)" An example of a pattern-like approach (ASF): "I'm sure that you, like me, have had some really interesting experiences in your life. You know experiences that were incredibly fascinating and absorbing, like maybe when you were a kid and you went to a museum and you just got lost in wonder and delight at what you were seeing. If you were to share a memory about one of your most interesting experiences, a person you met perhaps, or a place you've been, or something you've learned that still holds a deep interest for you, what would it be?" Another pattern-like approach. Odious, ASF: ""Excuse me (to get her to stop) I just wanted to say thank you." Her curiosity bells just went DING. She'll almost inevitably ask why, though it is ok if she doesn't. Move into standard mirroring and rapport building techniques as you continue... "Have you ever had one of those days where, you find yourself feeling sort of aloof... you're not really happy, but not really sad either... you just feel like your adrift. Then suddenly you find you bump into somebody with an incredibly warm and beautiful smile that just makes you feel wonderful for the rest of the day?" She will almost surely smile more at this point, or give some degree of positive response. "So, I just had to thank you for brightening up my day... Though, you know it would be a shame if this is the last time I'll see that wonderful smile... what's (27 of 84) [7/5/2001 8:02:27 PM] your name?"" An example of approaching girls in cafeterias with some aspects of patterning. ASF: Walk up from a direction where they can see you coming (I like them to feel like I walked up to them confidently, not like I'm trying to sneak up on them or trick them). l Sit down while you say something with a big smile and like you've known them your whole life. It doesn't much matter what you say, but if you say something interesting it makes it easier to continue the conversation (now they have had a state change and are wondering if they know you). l Make interesting conversation (use patterns if you know them) while mirroring them. Tell them a little bit about yourself then SMOOTHLY #close. l M: "So, How was you day" (sit down) H: "Good... how was yours" (This is a very typical response if you were smooth with the intro). M: "My day was awesome so far (try to match her outlook, if she looks completely down try "pretty good").I had a great day at work, and then one of my closest friends that I hadn't talked to in a while called me. You know how you can just talk to someone and no how long it's been you just _feel_ this great connection with them..." H: "That's cool, I have a friend like that" M: "Someone you can really trust, who always makes you feel good to talk to?" H: "Yeah, I've known her forever" M: ... H: ... M: "I have to go, but I've really enjoyed this conversation, why don't you give me your number and we can talk again" "How was your day", pacing and rapport building. Anubis, ASF: "If there's nothing particularly interesting about the environment in which you find yourselves, the first sentence or two gives you the perfect opportunity to pace her (this is more what I'd be tempted to do at a party or some social gathering). ----- Example 1 You walk across to her and, genuinely interested, ask: "So, how was your day?" In a fraction of a second she flickers through the events of the day, smiles, and says "Great!" Her smile is infectious and you find yours matching it as you reply. "Excellent! So was mine. What did you do?" She's had a great day. You've had a great day. She feels a small (at this stage) degree of rapport and should have little problem sharing her good mood. This leads her into talking about what she did to have such a great day, a list of sentences in which you should find any number of conversational hooks to bite on. ----- Example 2 You walk across to her and, genuinely interested, ask: "So, how was your day?" In a fraction of a second she flickers through the events of the day, sighs, and says "Awful." Her sadness is infectious and you feel an empathic frown flow across your face as you ask "Oh, what happened?"

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Groom, dress, move, and pursue like a man who is confident with women.

Not in the sense of apologizing or excusing but simply that you are alert and AWARE of who she is and what she is experiencing. From here, what I will do is say, "Look...I don't have a lot of time here (a bit of a "takeaway" which always makes you more appealing). And it's obvious that you are on the move too. But if you'll sit with me for 5 minutes, I'll analyze your handwriting. You'll get to learn secrets about yourself your best friends don't know and I'll get to find out if YOU are the kind of person I want to know better (here I'm structuring an opportunity and offering her a challenge)." Power Opener The most important thing to keep in mind while approaching women is that first impressions are priceless and are made up within the first three seconds of introducing yourself. This means that you have no room for error. Rule No.1 Women sense and are turned off by insecurity, so make sure you look and act confident. How? Groom, dress, move, and pursue like a man who is confident with women. Practice socializing with all kinds of strangers on the street, whether they're old or young, women or men. Just say "Hi" and you'll start to notice your confidence build up. Rule No.2 No pickup lines. It upsets me when people ask me for the best pickup lines; there is no such thing as miracle pickup lines. You have to be honest, straightforward and say what's on your mind. If you use pickup lines, a woman will read right through you and feel cheap. When a woman feels like you're using a pickup line on her, she will do everything possible to show that she won't fall for it. Using pickup lines is what destroys a conversation because it's hard to think of what to say afterwards. Instead, by making conventional small talk, you have a base to build an interesting conversation upon. Rule No.3 Don't give her your name. This is the first tool to confirm that she is interested in you. Instead, ask for her name. Once she says her name, compliment it and start talking. If after a while she asks you for your name, it means she is interested. If she doesn't ask for your name, it means she doesn't care. If that's the case, don't waste your time with her and move on before she does. Rule No.4 No matter how tempting it might be, don't look at her breasts. If she catches you looking, gazing, screening, or scanning for even a one hundredth of a second, it's all over and you could kiss your chances goodbye. Don't risk it. Good looks are important but not enough to keep a woman interested in you. A woman also wants a man who can have an intellectual conversation. Most men know how to speak to women for the first few minutes but don't know how to make the conversation last. The most important part is how to keep them interested past the first ten minutes of conversation. The problem is that men don't understand how to follow the sequence of natural conversation. Some men make the mistake of talking about themselves all night long, while others begin by talking about how many kids they want, why they're still single, or how fast their Porsche can go from 0-60 mph. The secret to keeping a woman interested in you for more than ten minutes is to first melt her security ice shield, follow a sequence of natural small talk, bring up something no one else would, and observe her body language. Ice breakers At first, women are on their guard and act cold towards you approaching them. They feel a little intimidated so they put up their ice shields. You must deal with the fact that women will be testing you to see if you are safe or (25 of 84) [7/5/2001 8:02:27 PM] potentially violent. Before you even try developing a conversation, you have to make her feel comfortable by showing her that you're harmless. You can do this by using a little sense of humor (without looking too weird). You can also try some ice breakers like, "this party is really exciting…" or "who's the creep that left you all alone with these men?" If she gives you the evil eye or tells you to get lost, don't feel bad (remember she might just be uncomfortable so don't take it personally). Follow through with a smile and say, "Hey, you don't need to get nasty, I was just trying to make conversation." She might smile back and apologize. If she doesn't, well hold your head up and move on. If she smiles and gives you buying signals, this means she is slowly lowering her ice shield. You can continue by asking for her name and following through with a compliment. Now you can move on to the actual conversation. Rolling your tongue the right way When you first meet a woman, you have to capture her attention and keep her interested in you. This is achieved through the art of conversation. You have to be able to roll your tongue the right way to charm her. Sample Approach You: (Approaches woman at event after receiving positive body language and successful flirting) "Hi! Do you mind if I join you?" Her: "No, not at all. Have a seat." You:"So who's the creep that left you and your sexy smile here all alone with all these men?" (Ice breaker) Her: (Laughs and starts to blush) "Actually, I came with my girlfriends just to hang out and relax a bit." You: "A devoted and hardworking woman. Now that's rare to find these days. I bet you're looking forward to your vacation?" Her: (Big smile and excited look) "Are you kidding me? I'm dying for a vacation!" You: "By the way, what's your name?" Her: "My name's Jessie." You: "That's a sweet name! Okay Jessie, if i should ask you where is your ideal vacation spot, how would you respond?" Her: "Hmm, let me think. (Touches hair, looks up, caresses her glass and then touches my arm) Somewhere hot. Anywhere, as long as there's a beach around. You: The beach? You don't look like the beach type." (Neghit) Her: (Surprised) "What do you mean, i'm not the beach type?" You: "Well you look like the type of person who'd prefer to stay in the city and do some site-seeing or visit museums." [Expanding on negative hit implying she looks boring.] :) Her: (Laughs out loud) "No way! I love the beach." (Thinks to herself: "No one has ever told me that before, they usually compliment my looks.") You: "You have an amazing laugh, I think I'm going to tell you some more jokes so I can see those gorgeous dimples again." (Two positive hits). Her: (Smiling) "Stop, you're making me laugh. By the way, you still didn't tell me your name." You: "My name's "Walter".... So what is it about your work that makes you so exhausted?" (26 of 84) [7/5/2001 8:02:27 PM]